im in school.....so i figured i would ask because im thinking about it, how many bolts are on transmission pan holding it up??

20 pan bolts.

I never really did a Trans fluid change the whole thing before. They are 6mm bolts right? another question, how does the Filter go in and come out, clips, bolts, screws? and how do you do it?

Correct. M6X1.0X17

Shouldn't be that tight. 120 in-lb or 10 lb-ft is the torque spec.

Filter is pushed up into the seal and actually held tight by the tranny pan. Once pan is removed just rock the screen filter side to side a little and pull down hard.