so i recently broke up with my girlfriend cause we were on totally different levels. im 25, no kids, good job, and live alone with my cat and dog. she is 23 with one kid and lives with her dad. she gets money for child support, so she wasnt always broke, but still no job plus no car! she has anxiety attacks and doesnt even want to learn how to drive. i do relate to her in many ways, almost esp!but when i think of our future together, i dont picture us being one big happy family. i guess im looking for a girl that has her own place, a good job, and importantly a car!!!im starting to believe all the good ones are taken. any info???????

Nope. No good girls left, you are stuck for life! :lol2:









Just kidding! Look around. You'll fnd your girl.

^ lol.. Ghostrx7...at least you were honest instead of letting it drag on and wasting eachothers time.. There are plenty of good ones left out there..
When I broke up with my ex a few years back (similar situation, Without the child) I thought the same thing... then when I wasn't looking to meet anyone, I met my present girlfriend. We've been together over 2 years now and is the one I picture myself growing old with.. so I guess what I'm trying to say is that when you least expect it you will find the one who is right for you. :2cents:
Good Luck!
-Jimmy

thanks jimmy, i do believe in karma.

well this is prolly gonna piss you off but I'm 17 going out with a 23 yr old. she has 2 kids and a decent T-Bird a good house but a rather shitty job and a 8th grade education. I'm 17 still in high school 12th grade, decent buick century and no job, currently in rehab, and am planning on going to automotive college after I graduate. She is practically the best person I've ever met in my life. If my parents would sign for it we would more than likely marry each other tomorrow. We have both been to jail over each other and if anyone fucks with the other one we will go back to jail over it. in other words WE LOVE EACHOTHER!!! but srry man I don't know any decent ones for ya.

a shitty job would be better than none!and i do think she is one of the most amazing girls i have ever met, and we still see each other like before. and who knows maybe something will still work out, but its hard to get on the same page when ones at the intro and the other is on chapter 6! im so confused. i do know there is alot of fish in the sea, just dont know if i should be fishin just yet cause i have alot of feelings for her(and her likewise as i told her exactly how i felt).

stoned pimp,guess were a couple milf hunters!lol :lol2: :lol: :rofl:

im starting to believe all the good ones are taken. any info???????

We've all thought that at one point or another. Just hang out and be yourself, you'll meet someone good eventually.

hey man theres always more beers in the cooler if you catch my drift

There's heaps more quality out there - and you're now in the perfect position (money, car, age etc) to capitalise on it.
:thumbsup:

thanks oz, i really dont think it will be the hardest thing in the world to find someone else, im sure there is plenty of girls that would love to go for a ride in my h2 or rx7! it just feels hopeless in the beginning.im sure ill get over it. singlelife is full of ups and downs, which i cant stand.but i guess u have to if date to find the right one!

Stick with the 7 man. She'll never leave you.

There's plenty of good girls out there....Just keep looking, you'll find a good girl somewhere...Just try not to get one with problems...such as myself...That's no good.

There's plenty of good girls out there....Just keep looking, you'll find a good girl somewhere...Just try not to get one with problems...such as myself...That's no good.
Don't talk like that. You seem to be a great girl. We all have problems, I know I have my fair share. If someone says that they have never had any problems then theres the problem itself.

sexy angel, what kind of problems do u have? i have mad issues!!!!!!!thanks for the support. chris

We all have problems, I know I have my fair share. If someone says that they have never had any problems then theres the problem itself.

Totally. By the time people get to be around your age they'd better have an issue or two. If they don't, they've either been living under a rock their whole life or are so emotionally detached that they'll never feel anything. The people you need to find are the ones that deal with their problems in normal, constructive ways instead of letting them take over their lives.

For whatever it's worth, I'm in pretty much the same boat as you so I feel your pain. 26, good job, comfortable life, but very rarely meet any girls that interest me on anything more than the lowest of the male levels of response. It doesn't seem fair somehow, but it looks like that's just how it's going to be.

I think things like that make a person get comfortable with themselves and get a good idea of what they want so that when it finally comes along they'll know. So as long as I'm looking for it it doesn't really bother me that it's taking a little while to find, because I'd much rather be by myself and looking for something really good than getting myself all tangled up in a mediocre relationship that I know is going nowhere and am only half-heartedly dedicated to. If you do that, you're not only wasting your time, but someone else's time too, and that makes you a jerk.

About your (ex?)girlfriend, you'll probably always have feelings for her no matter what you do, and if you feel strongly enough about your differences to break up with her that probably won't go away either even if you choose to ignore it. Stick to your guns and keep moving forward, never take a step back.

ur right kublah, its been a week and i still do have feelings for her. thanks for the advice everyone.

I think things like that make a person get comfortable with themselves and get a good idea of what they want so that when it finally comes along they'll know. So as long as I'm looking for it it doesn't really bother me that it's taking a little while to find, because I'd much rather be by myself and looking for something really good than getting myself all tangled up in a mediocre relationship that I know is going nowhere and am only half-heartedly dedicated to. If you do that, you're not only wasting your time, but someone else's time too, and that makes you a jerk.
Exactly the point I try to get across to my damn roomate all the time. I'll meet some girl and she's cool and all but I just dont have any attraction to her. My roomates like you cant keep looking for some super model. Well no shit sherlock, thats NOT what I'm looking for. But usually when I find a girl that is just cute but has the coolest personality she's usually engaged or married or somewhere in between. It gets frustrating but after the suffering i went through/put myself through last year i'm not looking. I just try and live by the saying Expect the unexpect, whatever happens happens.

Exactly the point I try to get across to my damn roomate all the time. I'll meet some girl and she's cool and all but I just dont have any attraction to her. My roomates like you cant keep looking for some super model. Well no shit sherlock, thats NOT what I'm looking for. But usually when I find a girl that is just cute but has the coolest personality she's usually engaged or married or somewhere in between. It gets frustrating but after the suffering i went through/put myself through last year i'm not looking. I just try and live by the saying Expect the unexpect, whatever happens happens.
:werd: The GOOD ones are ALWAYS taken. In between times, feel free to smash some of the ones you just meet. Will help pass the time.

"so i recently broke up with my girlfriend cause we were on totally different levels. im 25, no kids, good job, and live alone with my cat and dog." Quote by ghostrx7



I just found this thread. Dude, E-mail me!

^Wow...after reading her profile, I think this one is a real keeper........

:rolleyes:

Hmmm...

Yeah what was that all about??

Anyway, we've all been in your position man. Just keep your head up, mind clear and something good will come.

"so i recently broke up with my girlfriend cause we were on totally different levels. im 25, no kids, good job, and live alone with my cat and dog." Quote by ghostrx7



I just found this thread. Dude, E-mail me!


SO ghost.... did you hit it??

LMAO

dude she says she lives in indonesia!!!!!and her occupation is a slut, i could hit a hundred sluts right here in my home town, but id rather find a good girl. im sick of whores! i hope they all get aids and die. sorry, just pissed at my ex-bitch right now!lol, but trust me, if im lookin to get laid, its one phone call away. i not to desprite considering i got laid 2 days ago! (update) so, i was still seeing my ex, trying to work past our issues, and it just got worse! she would always talk about wanting 2 going to the club, or the last thing she was talking about was a lloyd banks concert. i personnaly wouldnt go to that concert if my life depended on it! she came over and hung out with my friends and had a few drinks. she then let out a burp that totally pissed me off! i told her thats disqusting and then my very good friend said "trash belongs in the dump, theres one out back!" not five minutes later she was in the kitchen and let one rip. another one of my friends was just laughing, which disqusted me. i have to much respect to be with someone who has none. we did sleep with each other that night, but the next day i told her this isnt gonna work. she seems to have all guy friends(can guys be friends....)threat. she told me she doesnt sleep with her friends, but yet she was sleeping with me(just friends at this time)so how could i believe her? well we got in a heated arguement and were having a huge discussion about whats gonna happen. some of my boys came over so i told her id call her back. two hrs later i call her back(kick friends out) and she says shes going with a couple guys that live 5 condos away to smoke a blunt. she said they went to the banks concert and had fun. that was the final blow. i told her im not gonna worry bout u anymore cause im not gonna know what ur doing cause im never gonna talk to u again. she wants to be friends, but i told her friends dont hurt each other. i also told her to make sure u tell ur next boyfriend upfront that u have all guy friends, u dont drive and never will, and u dont have a job, and if u have jealousy issues, do not date her. she said she was never good enough for me and i guess she was right. slut! sorry for long reply, just venting, trust me theres plenty more!lol

:thumbsup: Keep going. It's like Dr Phil.

ok oz, just 4 u! so she text messages me today, day after, and askes why i didnt answer her text mess after she got home, or after i was at work the next day. i told her shes through, im done worrying bout some girl that does so many random things. i told her randomness is a description of a whore! i also said i wont be upset after we stop speaking cause i just know shes gonna move on, and sooner that u could imagine(slut!)she says she doesnt want to be alone, and if i dont want her shell find someone else. we must have sent 40 text messages today back and forth!!!!!! complaining bout each other! i told her ill talk to her when i get out of work at 6(maybe)if she doesnt have a date by then! she replies"date with a shotgun!" i told her to have some pride and stop being so pathetic. u need to find yourself before u move on. ull never get married or settle down if u dont respect yourself first. anyway.......ill keep u updated tomarrow on our brutal battle tonight!if i even call her pathetic azz!

Mate, time for a week of the cold shoulder. Do not reply, do not speak, do not see. Ignore her completely for a week.

update, i insulted her every way possible so she got the clue. she said its now or never and i told her never, we didnt talk for 2 days then she says she thinks she wants to be with a girl cause men are aholes! i knew she was bi, since she told me. so i had some suspicion. what a wack job!

Nice. Better to be without somebody that puts you through the ringer all the time.

she says she doesnt want to be alone, and if i dont want her shell find someone else.

How incredibly typical. So losing you as a person isn't a problem, only losing the things that you do for her is. Just goes to show you what she's been in it for all along...

THere are plenty of good girls, just have to keep looking. Some of us are bitches and screw with your heads, but the rest of us are always the ones guys go to when they have questions, but don't seem to look past. The right girl might be right under your nose, but sometimes guys are to dumb to even realize.

yeah ghost, all us guys are helping you out, but you havent even got the clue yet.. LMAO :rofl:

j/k tothebeach. Maybe you can tell us what that was about. Is there a guy right now that is clueless? Sometimes guys are just too scared to ask the girl who gives them advice, out. I knew a girl that was always there if I needed anyone, and she always was concerned with my well being, but I had this hoe of an ex, and all I ever did was complain about how she treated me like shit. I didnt know if it would be a good idea to be with her instead. I didnt know how to break that ice anyways, it was scary.

Anyways, Ghost... dude, I know exactly what you are/were dealing with. My ex put me through the same bullshit. I did the same thing as you. I said some things to her that damaged her mind. It was all the truth, but it was too quick for her to deal with it, and I knew it which was why I told her. I wanted her to feel the pain she put me through. BUT, now I wish I had never dropped to her level, because that was the most immature thing I ever did, and I regret it. What if I had just walked away with pride? Think of how she would think of me now. She knows what she did, and she knows I knew, but think about how she would feel if I didn't stoop down that low. If I just kept my head up and forgot about it. Along with her being more hurt for the RIGHT reasons in the longrun, I/you/anyone would feel better about themselves if they didn't have to resort to insults to hurt someone who didnt matter in the end. I apologized to my ex. Not because I wanted her back, but because I felt dumb for being so immature. If you do talk to her again, I suggest telling her you are sorry for insulting her, and you didnt mean all the shit you talked, and you're sorry that it just isnt going to work out. that last part.. about it not working out, that will have the most effect on her out of all the things you could possibly think to ever say, and it will also make you feel better about yourself. Its a mans way to deal with it. Tell the truth, and be respectful. If it hurts, then, its not your fault. She knows why, and you dont have to tell her. The more isults you throw at her, the less she will take it to heart. She will just brush it off, and never learn from it. If you just walk away, then she won't have anything to think about besides you leaving her for something she knew was wrong.

I'm personally trying to develop a mind set where I always remember to do the mature thing, while mixing it with female tactics. We all know female tactics... Be inconclusive, and threatening, to make the guy worry and end up apologizing for nothing, REPEAT.

Change that to Be honest, be sincere, be mature, be respectful, but don't let them realize I already know why Im doing it.

(this may seem off topic, but read it all, theres a point)
Last night I was at a strip club, and they had the special going on... 2 full contact lap dances for 30 bucks. Chick walks up, asks me if I wanna do the special, and I say yeah. She does one dance, and then asks for my money. I say.. "was that both dances?" she says yeah... so I give her 40 bucks. yea 40. She would be one of my favorites because she had a fine booty, but now I wont have her dance for me anymore. I could have said, no thats not both dances, and argued about it with her, but I'll let karma work it out for her. Next time she wants to dance for me, I'll pass. She wont make my money anymore. My friend Jodi (the bouncer) realized that we were only gone for one song, and tracked her down and made her give me another dance. She apologized, said it wan an honest mistake, blah blah blah, I was like, yeah I understand, its okay, no problem. She knew though. I ended up getting my 2 dances, she got 40 bucks, and I wont pay her again. Hurts her more than it hurts me because I would go back to her if she was cool, and I am a good tipper. Next time I pass on her she'll be like.. Damn, thats too bad, he gave me 40 last time.

Girls are good at mind games, but I can play strategy war. Even if they don't know what you are trying to do, you still win. You feel proud for being mature, and they get the point better than if you stoop to their level. And karma will work it all out anyways. I didnt ask Jodi to find that girl and make her give me my other dance, it just happened. I would have no problem doing the same thing again. I just wish I would have known how to act when I broke up with my ex. I regret being so immature, and I tarnished the image she has of me.

I know that was long, but when I drink, I can go on forever. So, I'll just go pop open another beer, and go do something else now.

Rick

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rick, thats funny cause i did apoligize, and tell her its just not gonna work. i said i had alot of emotions built up and i get a little crazy. this is how psyco this girl is, she started being all desperite and saying i wish i could smoke(bud of course)and i reply, "cant help u out, u know what would happen" she replies what? i say "ill just want to put it in u and we know where that leads!"exact words!then she says why does it gotta be about sex all the time? "cause im a male and i love sex!"
but im also emotional and cant be with someone like u.

yesterday i went to the casino, and she saw it on my away message(funny i deleted her name days ago) she tells me she wants to be friends and go to the casino next weekend. i told her maybe in like 3 mtns when im settled down, but probably not. she wants to be friends and i cant deal with that shit. she also tells me she wants to marry me and all that shit, which i find funny. i told her she needs to first pick a sex(m or f!), then experiment for a little. u cant get married if u still have thoughts of women or want to party. she started trying to beg for me and wanted me to call her, i told her she could call me but i dont feel like talking about this shit. i told her she has no chance. she says i miss u sooo much, twice and i reply, ttyl bye!

ya, i would do the same thing to that money hungry stripper. i love to play those games too. people dont realize that if there greedy, or stingy noone is gonna want to share with them when they are needy. its like my bud habit. when i have it i share to all my friends that share with me. i told a good friend 2 weeks ago after he said "pack it up." i told him i dont smoke with people that dont buy weed! then proceded to smoke in his face. i try to give people what they deserve so they maybe think before they speak/act. im like a karma dealer!!!!anyway thanks guys ill keep u posted. maybe ill get a threesome going and take some pictures. that would be fun(hey, im single now!)and prove that shes easy all in one bang. literally!!!!!lol :lol: :cwm27: :lol2: :rofl:

it was funny cause i was drinking with my ex roomate(trash belongs in the dump)man and he didnt remember even saying it to her!!!!i was laughing and said u were right. so i took out the trash!!!!lol then he started burping like a pig telling people thats how my ex burps!funny shit. anyway........its easy to get over a nasty freak(called her that 2!)

truth is i have 500 bucks in my pocket to spend, an h2, my rx7, phat house, bout to get 6750 from investments to hook up my ride, tickets to las vegas and san diego in august, good friends, awesome pit bull and cat, good job and most important my honesty. it shouldnt be to hard to find a good girl. i got everything going for me, just need to find a girl that would share it with me.