I was playing with my remote so i could get the car to arm it's self afetr 30 seconds, Now when the alarm is turned on or off manually, the parking lights dont flash anymore. AND i still cant th 30 second thingy to work! Any help would be great! thanks!

oh yeah and my silent mode doesnt work either. =(

oh yeah and my silent mode doesnt work either. =(
I sell these alarms so I will try to help. The lights should always work unless a bad install or something. Check the fuse off the white wire on the brain. Also, you can not change the alarm to self arm by using the remotes alone. Were you using the valet switch too? Silent arm it by pressing button number 2 then your arm or disarm button. It will be silent for one time.

what model alarm and how old was it, did you install it yourself or did you have a shop do it? Either way ponchonutty was correct in saying that no matter what, the white wire should always pulse on arm/disarm. I work for a dealer and have been installing these and remote starts for the better part of 6 years now and can help you with programing and wiring diagrams if you need