Does anyone know where to find the rev/speed meter in the cool silver color with the graphics like their other controllers. I saw it in import tuner but I haven't seen it anywhere else.

I don't know, but you could try contacting A'Pex Integration USA directly -
http://www.apexi-usa.com/

A'PEX Integration, Inc.
330 W. Taft
Orange, CA 92865

(714) 685-5700 Phone
(714) 685-5701 Fax