I just turned 16. And i just bought a used civic. I also just bought some new xenon headlights. But i have now clue how to put them in. Since the car is used it didn't come with an owners manual. I could really use the help thanks.

Your first purchase should be a factory repair manual from www.helminc.com -- You could also purchase an owners manual from there.

Disconnect the connections to each light
Turn plastic collar or unclip spring holder(cant remember which for '970
Remove bulb
*do not touch glass on new bulb*
reverse for install

turn lights on check low/high beam function

If the lights are high wattage I sugest you upgrade the connectors or you might melt them.