Help! short fried fuses, where is relay?

My car fried the fuses when a bad battery was being installed. All the lights turned off , I replaced all the fuses and all the lights are back on except the brake lights and the headlights.

Where is the headlight relay for a Dodge stratus 04?

I went to auto zone and they could not find it. They didn't have one in stock either, Just the headlight relay delay.

If I can find the headlight relay, i can take it to them and show it to replace it maybe.

Any ideas? I looked in the fuse/relay box under the hood. It has the picture of a light in the box cover to show where the relay goes, but in the socket there is no connection, there is but no metal in it just plastic. The auto zone tech said that was not the connection and it is around there somewere.

Where does this Headlight Relay go on my Dodge stratus 2004?

http://www.rockauto.com/catalog/x,carcode,1431883,parttype,3400,a,www.google.com%2 BSearch%2Bfor%2B2004%2BDODGE%2BSTRATUS%2B2.4L%2B23 51cc%2BL4%2BFI%2B%2528G%2529%2BSOHC

http://www.rockauto.com/catalog/moreinfo.php?pk=933767


I guess it's called a Delay not relay.